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I feel bad, but he didn’t even give me a chance to help him.  So he came in his pants! Who cares?  I would have gotten him up again.  I totally would have played nurse and given his injured member a sponge bath…with my tongue.  I don’t know if most women are not patient, but I personally would never ridicule a man about a sexual issue.  There is more to do than just vaginal intercourse…  one of my best sexual experiences was I ever had was with a man I call “Tarzan” and we didn’t even really have intercourse.  He had been drunk for like 3 days straight and had a case of the “Whisky Dick”.  He had claimed earlier that he didn’t know what “Whisky Dick” was, but he knew…he had to have…he just never had a name for it.  It didn’t matter anyway.  We had a hell of  a few nights.  I learned quite a bit about myself.  I like it rough. I like oral asphyxiation… and some men really do know about cunnilingus.  Don’t worry, he got his too…I never leave anyone disappointed.

So, what should a girl do if her partner has trouble getting it up?  Well, I am going to tell you.  I wish Kate Winslet’s character from Revolutionary Road could read this too, because, well, she totally got shammed in that movie.  Talk about some three pump chumps!

• The Stop and Start Technique
• The breathing technique
• The squeeze technique
• Wear a condom
• Masturbate first
• Different sexual positions
• Desensitizing cream
• Pelvic muscle exercise
• Herbal treatments
• Testicular restraint and penis ring

The Stop and Start Technique

You simply bring him near the point of no return and then stop before he cums. After he no longer feels the urgent need to spray all over (or in) you, resume.  You can do this over and over and it is actually pretty fun!

Communication is the key. He has to feel comfortable enough to let you know when he is getting close. This method can be done in conjunction with intercourse, oral sex, or even just a hand job or masturbation.
The Breathing Technique

P E that is caused by anxiety can be relieved just by relaxing your man during sex.  Get him breathing deeply.  Give him a nice long massage. Some men find that drinking one (just one) glass of red wine before fucking can help. So, go ahead…loosen him up a bit!

The Squeeze Technique

Gently squeeze the base or end of the penile shaft and stop sexual stimulation until the urge to ejaculate passes. The squeezing can be done by either the man, or you, and can be repeated until ejaculation is desired.  A cock ring can also be used…

Wear a Condom

This is probably my least favorite option, but it does happen to be a very good one.  I don’t think condoms are any fun and have a latex allergy, but condoms definitely have their place and there are many different options for latex sensitive peeps.  Besides being a good contraception option and a good practice to prevent contracting STDs, they also reduce sensation and thus prolong sex.

Masturbate First

Masturbation a few hours earlier can make the later experience last longer.  While some claim that this can cause a man to be less interested in sex later, I have never had this problem/  Just spice it up.  Blow him in the car…or the theater…  Titty fuck him till he cums…then make him wonder what will be
cumming” later.
Different Sexual Positions

Ok, I recommend trying out every sexual position imaginable to everyone not just those with P E, but it needs to be mentioned.   Switching positions every so often can help your guy out.  It gives them a few minutes to realx…

Some men reach orgasm and ejaculate faster in the missionary position (man on top). They may last longer if you jump on top and take the reigns!  Trust me, no man will complain when you ask to ride him.

Desensitizing cream

I have never tried this and I have heard bad reviews, but it is an option.  I’ve heard it makes sex less pleasureable and can numb the woman involved.  If you can’t cum, it may make it harder for him to.
Pelvic Muscle Exercises

I do my Keigels all the time.  If you run into me at the grocery store, I am doing kiegels…I do them while watching TV…I do them when I run. Men can do them too…and they help!  They are fun too…they keep you thinking about sex all day long.

Herbal Treatments

There are many herbs for men’s sexual health available in the market today. Some, such as yohimbe and maca extracts, are basically stimulants and may have unwanted side effects, especially for older men. A promising her is Tribilus terrestris…it supposedly has no side effects.

Testicular Restraint and Penis Ring

I mentioned this above, but it deserves another mention.  It can be expecially fun for those of you who are into restraint!  Wink wink….Some men feel silly or uncomfortable with this, but just emphasize the fun…it is like bringing a vibrator into bed…it isnt because they are inadequate…it is too have a little fun and to enhance the awesome time you already have with them!

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I am not really sure why people would even like it.  Is it some freaky control thing?  “Hey, I can stick my dick in your butt and then make you lick up your own shit!”  All of a sudden, I understand it!  I don’t know if I could resist it if a man said that to me.  SEXY!

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Today is National Hug Your Kitty Day!  I just want to remind everyone that holidays are important and you shouldn’t ignore them.  If you don’t have a kitty, go hug someones else’s…maybe give it a few kisses while you are at it.